Kate and I started marriage counseling 3 weeks ago. I've always assumed counseling was for people who had issues and that I never needed any because I had no issues. Well, I was wrong on BOTH accounts. In the new light of first hand experience, I can tell you that counseling is for everyone because we ALL have issues. Kate and I both agree that we've needed counseling all our lives. From what I've experienced in 2 sessions, counseling basically consists of an open and safe arena to share your important thoughts and feelings. I know not everyone's experience is all that great, but I'd definitely recommend counseling any time for anyone and everyone (issues or 'no issues').
I've learned a lot about Kate and a lot about myself. I was finally able to put Kate's important pre-college experiences in chronological order. Before, her past was a mix-mash of stories here and there. I've learned so much about my relationship with my dad and my relationship with myself (self-esteem).
All to say - this is just the beginning - let the learning and growing flow like an endless stream until we take our last breaths.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
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